Emotional Love Versus Intentional Love

Emotional Love Versus Intentional Love

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The opposite will always attract in marriage. You fell in love with your spouse because he/she is different from you. This is so not to encourage disagreement but to bring a different viewpoint into your covenant relationship.

Your love should move from being emotional to being intentional. This is where commitment, maturity, and understanding come to play.

You don’t do marriage because of feelings, you do because of commitment and respect to God who instituted marriage

Emotional love is when you have butterflies in your belly. When your spouse is so nice, loving, caring and he/she is just dope. No faults. No flaws. Everything is just right about them.

But you move to a point of maturity when even though you don’t feel loving towards your spouse because of what they have done or what they have not done, you are intentional and committed to doing those things that keep the love alive.

You don’t kill the embers of the fire of love. You keep on servicing love. Serving and maintenance is an important part of anything we hold dear and anything of value to us that we use.

We maintain our cars, clean up and repair things in our houses so also we should be ready to service our marriage.

Just because things are broken in your car or house doesn’t mean you throw them away.
You are committed to spending your money and time fixing whatever needs to be fixed.

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Remember, marriage is till death do us part. You are not going anywhere. You stick with it until you have a breakthrough.

Don’t wait till everything breaks downtown beyond repairs. Just like you don’t wait till your four tyres are flat before repairing and changing them

May God grant us more understanding in Jesus mighty name.

God bless your marriage.

I am intentional about my marriage

Lord, give me wisdom

Ecclesiastes 4:9 (NIV) Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor:

Have a logical conversation with your spouse

Lev 8


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