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Fanning the Embers of Love

by Rev. Sophia Okunowo | Aug 8, 2023 | Singles and Married

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Fanning the Embers of Love

Love is usually described by burning flames. When we are really in love with that special someone, our love is burning. Like anything burning, if we don’t want the flames to go down we have to keep it rekindled or burning. We have to fan the coals of our love.

Here are some practical and helpful tips to help us achieve this.

Fanning the Embers of Love

1. Express gratitude

As simple as it may appear, failing to express gratitude can quickly undermine affection. Don’t take love for granted; be grateful for everything. Compliment each other frequently.

2. Spending Quality Time

Make time for each other outside of your busy schedules. It’s just the two of you now. Plan date nights and activities that both of you like. It restores and strengthens your bond.

3. Interaction

This is quite crucial. Discuss your feelings and worries openly with one another. Honest communication aids in understanding each other’s wants and requirements.

4. Resolve Problems

Constructively address unresolved issues or areas of contention. Make an effort to make your relationship healthier and happier.

5. Share happy memories

Laughing over and sharing happy recollections with one other is beneficial. Reminding each other of the good times brings back fond memories.

Fanning the Embers of Love

6. Physical Closeness

Physical contact can revive love. Hold hands, kiss, and hug on a frequent basis.

7. Patience and dedication

Be patient and committed to your partner and your marriage. It may take some time to fan the flame of love.

8. Avoid Monotony

Let your relationship be spiced with fun. Break free from the monotony. Avoid boredom by making your relationship more enjoyable.

Rekindling your love for each other is important. When we value our relationship we will want to keep it from going down and becoming obsolete. Commitment to each other’s needs, feelings, mutual respect, and understanding are also crucial

Rev. Sophia Okunowo