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COUPLES – Dear Wife Do This For Your Husband!

The two words Appreciate and Praise have same elements but are slightly different.

Every wife should know how to praise her husband. If you wait till your husband is perfect you will wait a long time. Besides, who says you have the right standard to judge him? You may have a thousand things against him, but look for and focus on the good things he has done.

How he has been a good father to your children, he didn’t neglect you when you were pregnant, he didn’t abuse you, he provided for you, he prayed and fast for you.

The truth of the fact is that your husband has done so much for you, that you are not even aware of. It will take eternity to discover some of the things our husbands have done for us. Just like it will be in eternity to unravel the so many things our heavenly father has done for us.

Sometimes we have misjudged their motives, yet God is the judge of all and He looks into the heart.

God our heavenly father loves praises and men are created in the image of God, so there is a part of every man that craves praises.

If every wife will look beyond the pains and hurts, and just praise her husband for what he does, I believe that praise will work wonders.

But when Herod’s birthday came, the daughter of Herodias danced in the midst [before the company] and pleased and fascinated Herod, and so he promised with an oath to give her whatever she might ask. –Matthew 14:6 – 7 (AMPC)

That is what praise can do. We can learn this principle from this young girl, who despite who King Herod is or whatever he has done, danced with all her heart, and honored him till he felt so wonderful.

She could access what the king has by simply honoring him. She brought herself to a place of prominence by forgetting herself and praising the king first. She was rewarded for it.

Let us all as wives focus on praising our husbands. Let us be selfless. Let us not be too mindful of ourselves.

We can’t dance unless we learn to forget whatever issues, and grievances we have towards our husbands. For us to dance in a way that pleases and catch the attention of our husbands, our hearts must be free of offenses.

Have a light heart. So you can dance well. All you want is for your king to open his mouth and give you half of his kingdom, his heart, his life, his commitment, his loyalty, his attention.

The principle is to do his own first!

May God grant us the heart of humility to rid our hearts of everything that will not make our hearts light, so that we can dance for him.

God bless our marriage

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to be a good wife, teach me how to always appreciate my husband

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
But when Herod’s birthday came, the daughter of Herodias danced in the midst [before the company] and pleased and fascinated Herod, and so he promised with an oath to give her whatever she might ask. –Matthew 14:6 – 7 (AMPC)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Make a list of the things your husband has done for you and appreciate him for it

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Genesis 4

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