Bringing The Best Out Of Your Lover
Pray, pray, and pray some more. It is more than just religious advice. It is a tried and true method that has worked for many years. When a guy prays for his wife, he grows closer to God and relieves his wife of stress.
This also works perfectly in a courtship situation! Pray a lot for your lover! My spouse and I prayed a lot together while we were students at the University and this helped us a lot!
When a man realizes that his wife lacks certain virtues, he should turn to prayer. No amount of pestering will change that. No amount of lecturing will persuade her otherwise.
Only God can transform our marriages into what He intended them to be, and prayer is one of the routes through which God accomplishes it.
When you pray, you bring God into the picture and give him the authority to accomplish whatever He wants with your marriage.
Eph 5:25-28 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
It is the husband’s obligation to ensure that his wife becomes everything God intended her to be.
As a wife, request that your husband pray for you. Request that he places his hands on you and speaks words into your life. He doesn’t have to be a pastor to bless you!
It makes you naturally submissive and allows the spouse to serve as the priest God has called him to be.
It will also help to reduce constant squabbles. You can’t expect someone who is battling with you to always pray for you.
Make it a point to pray for your lover or spouse, and you will see the transformation that God will bring.
God bless your marriage!
