5 Things To Look Out For Before Saying Yes – Part 2

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5 Things To Look Out For Before Saying Yes

3. Emotional Maturity

Emotional maturity is most times overlooked, but it is crucial in any healthy relationship. It shows itself in the ability to handle conflict calmly, take responsibility for mistakes, and respond to stress without resorting to hurtful words or actions. Someone who is emotionally mature does not overreact to small setbacks, can communicate their feelings clearly, and demonstrates patience and empathy toward others.

Choosing a partner who is emotionally grounded allows the relationship to grow in trust, understanding, and stability, rather than becoming a source of constant tension or drama.

4. Intentions and Goals

Before entering a relationship, it is important to understand why the person wants to be with you and what they hope to build together. Are they looking for a deep, meaningful connection that aligns with God’s purpose, or are they simply seeking convenience, validation, or temporary companionship?

It is also vital to consider whether their long-term goals—career, family, lifestyle, or ministry—complement your own. Misaligned intentions or incompatible goals often lead to misunderstanding, frustration, and heartbreak. Clarity in these areas ensures that your time and heart are invested wisely, with purpose rather than uncertainty.

5. Influence and Environment

A person is shaped by the company they keep, the habits they cultivate, and the environment they move in. Before pursuing a relationship, observe the people who surround them and the choices they make in daily life. Are these influences positive, encouraging, and aligned with godly principles? Or do they promote compromise, distraction, or unhealthy behaviors?

The environment someone lives in can subtly shape their character and decisions, which in turn impacts the relationship. Choosing a partner whose life reflects godly values strengthens the foundation of your connection and helps both of you grow closer to God.

Conclusion:

Relationships are not just I like you, you like me, they go beyond that, they are also about discernment, wisdom, and alignment with God. Take the time to reflect, observe, and pray deeply before allowing someone into your heart. A relationship entered with care, clarity, and guidance from the Spirit can strengthen your character, honor God, and lay a foundation for a healthy, lasting partnership.