How To Exit Properly From An Ex Part 2

How To Exit Properly From An Ex Part 2

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How to exit properly from an ex is the topic we started discussing since yesterday. We looked at one crucial way to fro that which is Forgiveness.

The next way to do this is emotional disconnection.

Emotional Disconnection.

The Ex with whom your soul is intertwined is difficult to let go. You have  written off the relationship, you have broken up, and you thought you have moved on, but you discover there is a strong soul tie that binds you together.

From time to time, his or her thoughts pop up and and you are wondering what is happening.

The way to ensure a disconnection emotionally is to put a stop to all communication. Notice I did not say you should be involved in some bitterness of entertain the unforgiving spirit

You can control and minimize all communication without the coloration of bitterness.

Avoid the use of “Dear,” “Love” “sweetheart” and so on. 

Do not visit an ex with whom you have been sexually active before because one thing can lead to another and before you know it, you are back to your vomits.

How to exit properly from an ex? Do not go and greet and stay overnight.

Do not buy special romantic gifts for him or her. You see all those small gestures, which on a good day looked cool, are the reasons why you are unable to move on.

Do not try to reach out on special days with gifts and the like. Those gifts can recall and bring back memories, and with the memories can come unnecessary emotional vulnerability.

Moving on means moving on.

How to exit properly from an ex? Distract yourself emotionally from him or her by getting busy in church, or by meeting new friends.  Stay in the word regularly so that your soul can be renewed as well.

Why is it so important to know how to exit properly form an ex? The reason is not far fetched. If you don’t move on, you will not be able to go to next phase of your life especially as it relates to marriage.

May God bless you massively. 

I am able to decide for God and for good

I receive Grace and strength to make quality decisions in my love life 

So, chosen by God for this new life of love, dress in the wardrobe God picked out for you: compassion, kindness, humility, quiet strength, discipline. Be even-tempered, content with second place, quick to forgive an offence. Forgive as quickly and completely as the Master forgave you. And regardless of what else you put on, wear love. It’s your basic, all-purpose garment. Never be without it.  Colossians 3:12 – 14 MSG

Make that decision that will make you better today

Col 3


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