Here Are The Qualities To Look Out For In A Lover – Part 2

Here Are The Qualities To Look Out For In A Lover – Part 2

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Continued from yesterday…

2. Character

…thou hast doves’ eyes. – Son 1:15-17 (KJV)

The dove is a gentle bird. It often symbolizes peace. So, this talks about character.

After the physical appearance, then you must take into cognizance the inner beauty.

Outer beauty without inner character is a disaster.

The flesh of my flesh, that talks about outer beauty. The bone of my bones deals with character, inner structure, the inner frame supporting and holding the outer beauty in place. This is important.

Can you vouch for his or her character? Will he raise his hands to beat you when he is angry? Then, he is not qualified.

Will she pack her things, leave her parents’ home and go sleep in a friend’s house over simple altercations? Then, you need to be careful.

Has he slapped you once? You need to be careful. He has shown you a sample of what is to come!

God has presented you with an opportunity to know what he or she is like!

Love is not stupid. Love doesn’t turn you into an idiot. Think. Ask questions. Don’t walk blindly into a marriage that could mar destinies for life.

3. Green Bed

Behold, thou art fair, my beloved, yea, pleasant: also our bed is green. – Son 1:16 (KJV)

The bed must remain green and fresh. Putrefaction must not set in as a result of iniquity and pre-marital affairs!

When the bed has been stained red with compromise, wrong seeds have been sown.

As you go into that relationship, make up your mind that the bed must remain green! Do not soil the bed with iniquity, because as you lay your bed so you lie on it.

In essence, everything you do before your wedding date is a seed, a foundation for your marriage.

If he wants to stain the bed by all means, let him go, maybe he is not yours!

If she wants to drag you into the bed before the time, beware lest you are dealing with a strange woman.

If you are already married, keep your bed green and avoid all forms of adultery including emotional affairs.

If you are entangled or about to be entangled, seek help. Don’t keep quiet. Iniquity is perpetuated in the atmosphere of secrecy.

My eyes are opened. I look well before making a choice

Lord, open the eyes of my understanding

Song of Solomon 1:15 Behold, thou art fair, my love; behold, thou art fair; thou hast doves’ eyes.

Pray in the spirit.


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