After Failed Relationships What Next?

After Failed Relationships What Next?

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After Failed Relationships, What Next? Hey! This must be my village people o!

Sandy has been in five relationships! Not one lasted a whole year! She moved from one guy to another seeking true love, but true love evaded her. She ended up being used by guys who could sense she was needy.

She began to feel something is wrong with her! Is something wrong with her? Is she under a curse? Her the village people meeting over her case at the village square under the Banana tree?

Let’s get into this!

There is nothing negative about failed relationships. It simply means you still need to learn more. What is negative there is refusing to learn and repeating the same mistakes over and over again.

In itself, nothing is negative about missing it. Even the Bible attested to that.

Pro 24:16 (KJV) For a just man falleth seven times, and riseth up again: but the wicked shall fall into mischief.

Staying down by repeating the same issues is where the problem is.

So after failed relationships, what next? I will talk about one out of several things you can do.

Sit down. Calm down. Be calming down! Smiles.

Don’t be a Boy Scout! Don’t be jumpy! Cool those hot hormones.

The scriptures advise you to do the same.

Psa 46:10 (KJV) Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth.

Be still! Hey, don’t rush into another relationship! It is in your stillness that you know God in your situation!

I particularly love the Message Translation:

Psa 46:10 (MSG) “Step out of the traffic…

After Failed Relationships, What Next?

Get out of the traffic of pursuing guys or ladies who don’t love you, of offering your body to get love, of allowing yourself to be emotionally manipulated all in the name of love! That is one traffic that is worse that Lagos traffic!

May God grant you more understanding! Have a fantastic day! 

I will not be hasty. I am teachable.

Oh Lord, teach me to be patient and wait on you

Psa 46:10 (AMPC) Let be and be still, and know (recognize and understand) that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations! I will be exalted in the earth!

Don’t rush into another relationship within six months of a failed relationship.

Ps 46


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