Here Are The Qualities To Look Out For In A Lover – Part 3

Here Are The Qualities To Look Out For In A Lover – Part 3

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Continued from yesterday…

4. Depth and Wisdom

The beams of our house are cedar, and our rafters of fir.Son 1:17 (KJV)

The beams talks about that which supports a house. A house is built by wisdom.

A foolish husband is a disaster. A foolish woman is clamorous.

Your lover should have a penchant for wisdom. He or she must be growing.

The beams of your house must be cedar, not just some stick out there. If the beams of your house are not cedars, there won’t be shade when marital heat comes!

Go after wisdom.

Does your lover put the word of God first place? You need wisdom to build a home!

Wisdom hath builded her house, she hath hewn out her seven pillarsPro 9:1 (KJV)

Study God’s word. Spend time there. That is how to get wisdom.

Do not fall in love with a vain person. A marriage cannot be sustained on adrenaline and promises alone. Depth and wisdom is required.

Watch out for these!

Does your lover prefer to watch movies rather than read books? Would your lover rather sleep all day rather than research and study to know more?

In the just concluded year, ask your lover how many books were read. These symptoms points somewhere, trust me?

I pray for you this morning, God will send every help you need into your life to move you from where you are to where you ought to be in Jesus name!

I pray for all singles who are struggling with one form of compromise or the other, God will set you free.

I curse every form of oppression in your life, I cancel every plan of the devil over your life and I declare that the counsel of God will stand in your life, relationship and marriage in Jesus name!

Be blessed!

My eyes are opened. I look well before making a choice

Lord, open the eyes of my understanding

Son 1:17 (KJV) The beams of our house are cedar, and our rafters of fir.

Pray in the spirit.



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