3 Types of Men Women Don’t Want

3 Types of Men Women Don’t Want

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3 Types of Men Women Don’t Want. Life is about change and adjustments. This devotional is not to spite men, but to call us to the responsibility God has given us as head of the home. It’s a huge responsibility.

If you fall into any category of men below, it’s time to change.

3 Types of Men Women Don’t Want

1. The night crawler
You are no longer single. You are now married, and that reality needs to settle.

Why would a husband keep late nights? It just doesn’t speak well. If your wife has not been cooperative, the best response is to seek counsel and a solution and not some form of late-night moves.

Keeping your wife awake when she should be sleeping due to needless late-night paroles is not a good idea.

There are some environments that would naturally encourage cheating on her, you should not be found in such places again.

For those single, understand that you really don’t change after the wedding. So all bad habits should be expunged as a single. 

2. The manipulator
Here, the man uses his money or any other thing to coerce the wife into obedience.

At the end of the day, what you get is not obedience but a bitter, hurt, offended, and wounded wife. And that can be dangerous under the same roof.

These are abnormal relationships between couples. What God ordained is a loving, healthy relationship that will provide an enabling environment for the children to be raised.

As singles in relationships, don’t introduce money and gifts as rewards or punishments. The relationship will become money-driven and true love will escape into the air.

3. The non-spiritual husband
Here, the man simply refuses to provide spiritual leadership for his wife and family.

He is evasive, full of excuses, and never puts God first place in their affairs.

He will never read his Bible. He will never pray.

The reality is that without a conscious and deliberate relationship with God, man will be incapacitated in providing any spiritual leadership.

Eyes are located in the head, so the man as the head of the house is supposed to give sight and vision to the family. The navigation system for the family and the compass lie with the man.

But the man can’t even see beyond his nose without God. His capacity for vision will be minimized.

For singles, ask a lot of questions and get to know properly who you are walking down the aisle with.

I will stop here this morning. These are the 3 Types of Men Women Don’t Want.

May your marriage be blessed.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am wise 

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to be a great husband  

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
1Pe 3:7 (GW)  Husbands, in a similar way, live with your wives with understanding since they are weaker than you are. Honor your wives as those who share God’s life-giving kindness so that nothing will interfere with your prayers.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Honour your wife 

BIBLE READING
Rev 18 – 19

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One Important Ingredient Every Marriage Needs

One Important Ingredient Every Marriage Needs

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COUPLES –

“Hullo dear, have you slept?”
“No, I have not, I am listening! I heard the last thing you said.”
The truth is that you have dozed off. 

It has happened to me many times, and I am sure it has happened to you as well. My wife is talking to me on the bed, and I have dozed off. I am trying to listen to her because it is a legitimate need of hers, but the son of man is tired!

Somebody said women speak more words than men. A man speaks an average of ten thousand words in a day, but a woman speaks about twenty-five thousand words! There are exceptions, though.

The man is back from work and he has probably exhausted his 10,000 quota since he derives his self-esteem and fulfillment from work.

By the time he is coming back home, he is done for the day, words have been spoken with friends, colleagues, clients, employers, employees, on the phone and so on. He wants to come back home, eat, listen to news, check a few mails, make love to his wife and sleep!

The wife too has probably exhausted 10,000 words at work, but by the time she is home, she still has 15,000 words bubbling in her! It is even worse if she is a housewife! She has nobody to talk to and so people around her say she nags, making repetitions and all that. 
The fact is that she needs to talk!

So the wife asks her husband 
“How was work today?” 
He answers “Fine!” If he is in a good mood, he adds a few more words like, “oh baby, my day was cool, Thank God!”

She is worried he is not talking, but the guy is in no mood to talk.

The husband asks the wife, “how has your day been? And he regrets afterwards!
That was all she needs to unleash the words that have been brewing in her like a molten magma. The volcanic eruption of words is so massive; the guy wants to walk away. So she starts from when she woke up, and goes on and on, and the man is wondering:
“What did I ask, what is she narrating!”

You see, that is a woman for you and you must not mute her or shut her up! Let her talk! Don’t make a mistake of shouting her down all the time or quieting her! It is a legitimate need of hers.

When a woman has no fear of God and this legitimate need of hers has not been met, she might succumb to the traps of the devil and get that legitimate need met through illegitimate means, which of course will be detrimental to the marriage and the home!

There are people out there who are waiting to capitalize on your insensitivity to your wife and take advantage of that emotional gully created by lack of communication.

You see, a lady becomes emotionally connected to the person she talks to!

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
My mouth is full of right words. The opening of my mouth is unto wisdom and grace.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Spirit of God, fill my mouth with right words over my spouse, children and family

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
(Pro 18:4) The words of a man’s mouth are as deep waters, and the wellspring of wisdom as a flowing brook.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Fix a time for a hearty discussion

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Matt 14

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This Is What Every Godly Lady Wants

This Is What Every Godly Lady Wants

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Somebody said the most complex being that God created is a woman. I am not sure whether to agree to that. I leave you to conclude and be the judge. Perhaps, people will have different opinions based on their experiences.

I believe every lady has a key. And you don’t need to search for the keys of every woman. You only need one key, the one for your spouse! That’s all. 

Once you have that key, you are good. Now, this key is not meant to be used to manipulate her emotions, where you become the master puppeteer with all the strings.

What we are talking about is having your fiancee’s password, learning it, using it to please her, and seeking to understand the great help that God is bringing into your life.

Our culture or environment might be saying you are doing a woman a favour when you marry her, but it is the other way round.

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When you find a woman, you find good and you bring favour into your life. Good things will begin to aggregate in your life!

That is why I normally pray for people, “You will not Shi-Marry! Bad English, good prayer! Because when you get married to the right woman, good things will happen to you. Conversely, if you get married to the wrong woman, it is like inviting a nemesis into one’s life!

May your path not cross with a strange woman who flatters with her mouth and whose path leads to hell. That is exactly what the scripture says!

It will do you well to understand the lady in your life, whether you are single or married.

Here are two things every lady wants her man to do daily.

1. Pray for or with her daily

That is very important. Thank God for your six-packs, but without some spiritual perks, you are finished.

Thank God for your phonetics, but if you don’t know how to speak in tongues, you are not ready to face the battles that come with raising a family and overcoming them. 

Thank God for your bank account, but if you are spiritually bankrupt and you don’t know how to lead your family as a priest, trouble looms ahead.

2. Tell her “I love you” regularly, and mean it!

How can this be on the list? Well, that is very important to every lady. Women go through a variety of complex emotions that are often accompanied by self esteem issues, they just needed to be affirmed over and over again especially by the one they love!

Don’t allow people outside to help you complement your loved one outside lest she becomes distracted. How long do I have to do that daily? Well, maybe as often as you can. Do it as often as you have the opportunity.

Your fiancee lives on words. That is why average, women talk more than men. An average man speaks ten thousand words daily while an average woman is doing twenty-five thousand! Isn’t that huge?

She loves to be tickled with words. She might be acting like she is not enjoying it, but in reality she is. She is putting up that attitude because she wants more.

So when you tell your lady “I love you,” She goes like, hmmm…as if she is doubting you. In reality, within her, she doesn’t want you to stop and she wants you to repeat it again.

Let me pray for you this morning:
I come against that wrong spirit in your relationship, I curse the spirit behind misunderstanding, quarrels, bitterness and acrimony. I destroy their powers in the name of Jesus. I release over you the balm of Gilead and I ask for healing over every hurt and wounds in the name of Jesus.

By the strength of my call, I ask that the love of God be shed abroad in your heart right now, I command every veil to be removed and I speak healing over your relationship/marriage in Jesus name! I declare you are free from that attack in Jesus name.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will love my spouse in God’s terms

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to end all issues leading to constant strife

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
“The same goes for you husbands: Be good husbands to your wives. Honor them, delight in them. As women they lack some of your advantages. But in the new life of God’s grace, you’re equals. Treat your wives, then, as equals so your prayers don’t run aground.” (1Pe 3:7, MSG)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Read, comment, and share today’s devotional.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Nehemiah 1-5

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What Every Husband Should Do To His Wife

What Every Husband Should Do To His Wife

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To show you how powerful women are, the Bible never says a man builds a home. It says a woman builds.

A woman is a builder.

Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.

Pro 14:1 (KJV)

Women are just simply powerful. And that is how God created them. This is why they are also called helpers. And the only other person that was referred to as helper in the entirety of the New Testament is the Holy Spirit.

Every other time, you will hear about the prayers of mothers. Hardly will you hear people talk about the prayers of their fathers. That tells you there is something about women.

Dear wife, there is a lot of power and accompanying responsibilities that lie with you. Your decisions, prayers, and actions will eventually build your home or tear it down, therefore, you cannot afford to be foolish. Be wise and cooperate with what God is trying to do in your life.

How do you do this?

Avoid all the strife, bickering, quarrels, and the like for that is how a foolish woman tears down her home. Avoid emotional affairs. They are distractions.

Now, since it is the woman building the house, what then is the responsibility of the man?

Build the woman!

That is what the man should do. Build the woman.

Dear men, build your wife so that your wife can build the house.

Invest in your wife. Support her endeavors and career. Be interested in her passion and you know what, she will give it all it takes to pray for the family.

May your marriage be blessed.

CONFESSION FOR TODAY
I chose to honor my spouse.

PRAYER FOR TODAY
Pray for your wife.

THOUGHT FOR TODAY
Pro 14:1 (KJV)Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.

ACTION PLAN FOR TODAY
Build your wife/home.

BIBLE READING FOR TODAY
Prov 14

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Dear Husbands, Learn To Take Care Of Your Wife

Dear Husbands, Learn To Take Care Of Your Wife

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Every husband must have loved the wife they married, if not they won’t be in marriage. That you are married shows that you loved each other. Whether the love grew or diminished is now another thing.

If the love has diminished, our aim is to help you find it back. But part of the way to find back this love is to try and care of your wife. Care is spelt being kind and gentle with her. Care also means being deliberate in looking out for the one you love, being concerned for, or about her well-being spirit, soul, and body.

It is about the little things we do to the wife we love that go a long way to show how much we care. There are several other little ways you can show that you care and love your wife, in words and in actions.

For example, telling your wife she is beautiful. This is very simple but it goes a long way in affecting her esteem.

Some wives feel worthless and not able to maximize their potentials because all they hear from their men are negative words. You can replace that with positive words of affirmation.

Words are very important to women. Remember, when she was created the first encounter was with words. She was spoken to by the man in her life. She was told how wonderful she was and how good it is to have her around.

So, it applies that the source of a thing is the sustenance thereof. God showed us that example. For a woman to function optimally, words, positive encouraging words have to be spoken to her.

Another way to care for the woman you love is by showing concern over all her affairs. Show that you care. Show that you are interested. For example, some husbands never care whether their wives have eaten. It’s simple, but my husband asks me if I have eaten from time to time, especially when I am at work.

Ask your wife how she is feeling, especially, if she is the quiet type. You will be surprised by the weight of emotions she’s carrying. Ask her if anything is bothering her. Let her know she has someone to count on. Don’t let that role be taken over by someone else. Be the man and the keeper of her soul. Ask about her welfare spiritually. Does she have certain fears? Ask about her future plans and aspirations. Tell her to go do some checkups medically. Be there for her. Show her care and concern.

God bless your marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I love my wife

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to love more

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
“Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled;” (Hebrews 12:15, KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Share the post above. Invite your friends to join KHC

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Proverbs 22-24

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