Overcoming Hurt in Marriage

Overcoming Hurt in Marriage

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I have often heard that those we love hurt us deeper than anyone else, especially our spouse. I had felt it can’t be that bad.

This world is full of hurtful people. I think the hurt is deeper when in marriage you hurt yourselves and keep on hunting yourselves unless you make up your mind not to hurt.

Hurt is a decision it is not based on your feeling. You have to make a conscious effort and decision against hurt.

Some people have been hurt for most years of their life.

That is what the devil wants. He is busy having a nice time stealing joy, peace, life, compassion, unity, and love from families.

The point is, people, your spouse, and those you hold dear to you will not stop hurting you but you have to make up your mind you won’t allow the hurt to get at you.

Hurtful words are spoken like the cutting of the sword especially if your spouse is choleric. You cannot prevent people from misunderstanding you, people judging you falsely, lying about you, etc.

There is that speaketh like the piercings of a sword: but the tongue of the wise is health. –Proverbs 12:18 KJV

From this scripture, you can pray for your spouse, pray that their tongues become the tongue of the wise that brings healing.

 Hurt is like drinking poison and hoping your neighbour dies.

That’s not going to happen. Hurts make you bitter. You can be bitter all your life if care is not taken. You will just see that sixty years of your life are gone without achieving much because of hurt and bitterness.

Let’s receive grace from the Lord. Jesus was hated, misunderstood, lied against, misjudged, and criticized, yet none of this affected him.

He choose to be immune to hurt. He kept His vision before His eyes. He choose between being powerful or being pitiful. He couldn’t possibly have died for humanity if He hated humanity. If he didn’t forgive on time He couldn’t go to the cross.

Behold, I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and overall the power of the enemy: and nothing shall by any means hurt you. –Luke 10:19 (KJV)

Jesus knew we will be faced with hurt and he made provision for it. We have to walk in our authority over hurts.

No weapon that is formed against thee shall prosper; and every tongue that shall rise against thee in judgment thou shalt condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, and their righteousness is of me, saith the Lord. –Isaiah 54:17 (KJV)

You have to take charge of your emotions. Not even your feelings should be strong enough to stop you from fulfilling your purpose. You are only answerable to one; the one who died on the cross for you.

When you come face to face with Him on judgment day, you will have no excuse to offer. Jesus passed through the same and was victorious. He overcame and gave you the victory.

He gave the blood of Jesus, the Word, the shield of faith, communion, etc.

You have to take the shield of faith which is the Word of God. Anytime words are spoken to you that are hurtful, lies, remind yourself and confess out loud and use it against the wile of the enemy.

Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.  -Ephesians 6:16 (KJV)

Remember, to protect yourself against hurt and every negative emotion. Protect yourself God’s way. There are negative ways of dealing with hurts. I will talk about that later.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY:
I declare concerning my life and marriage, I have victory, the enemy has lost the battle over my life and mind. I refuse to stay in hurt and unforgiveness, Jesus is glorified.  

PRAYER FOR THE DAY:
Father in the name of Jesus every fiery dart of the evil one is destroyed in my life and marriage in Jesus name

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY:
Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.  -Ephesians 6:16 (KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY:
Forgive and let go of every hurt today

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY:
Habakkuk

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The One Thing That Will Make Your Relationship Work – Part 2

The One Thing That Will Make Your Relationship Work – Part 2

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 All things were made by him; and without him was not any thing made that was made. (John 1:3 KJV)

Here are ten things that God’s word will do for you.

1. God’s word will clean up your past

It doesn’t matter what your past looked like, the word of God, anointed in and of itself, will wipe the slate clean for you! It is almost unbelievable and incredible to the human mind, but in one stroke of sacrifice, Jesus paid the price on your behalf. The past should never hold you to ransom again. You have been made free. The mistakes of yester-years can no longer bear its fangs at you today!

2. God’s word will birth hope for your future 

After your past is forgiven and forgotten, the same word of God will birth hope in you. This hope is a necessary ingredient to help you receive the fullness of God. All of a sudden, light dawns on your heart and hope comes alive, that it is not over, after all.

3. God’s word will produce faith in your heart to conquer the world.

Faith comes by hearing God’s word. As you hear and read more of God’s word, faith will rise in you. Why is faith so important? It is with faith that you will wrought victory in God!

For whatsoever is born of God overcometh the world:and this is the victory that overcometh the world, even our faith. (1 John 5:4 KJV)

See it in Message Translation:

Every God–begotten person conquers the world’s ways. The conquering power that brings the world to its knees is our faith. (1 John 5:4 Message)

Did you see that? Faith that comes through God’s word has the power to bring the world and its systems to its knees! Glory to God!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am a student of the word

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Ask for the grace to stay with the word

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Josh 1:8[NET]This law scroll must not leave your lips! You must memorize it day and night so you can carefully obey all that is written in it. Then you will prosper and be successful.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Decide to obey God’s word

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Josh 1

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Fighting From A Place of Victory

Fighting From A Place of Victory

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Do you know about fighting from a place of victory? Sometimes you might feel afraid to do something because you are afraid of failing or being mocked. The verse below tells you to do otherwise.

“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.” – Joshua 1:9

Fear is part of our lives but is not supposed to stop us from doing what we are supposed to do. Especially as children of God.

God doesn’t want us to be afraid of anything because, according to the verse above, He is with us all the way.

This was what he told Joshua when the children of Israel were going out to tackle an enemy. He told them not to be afraid. They believed Him and went out to battle. Guess what happened? They came back victorious.

May the Lord give you victory and eliminate every spirit of fear in you. Amen.

Prayer:
Lord, give me a spirit that is bold and courageous in You. Help me conquer mountains in Jesus name I pray. Amen.

Action plan:
Bring every one of your fears before God. Ask Him to show you what to do and obey His instructions.

Declaration:
I am courageous. I know no fear.

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Oil For Today – Day 127

Oil For Today – Day 127

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Today is Oil For Today – Day 127. Let’s lift up our voice one more time as we pray to God! Watch Video on Youtube HERE. Check other days HERE.

Scriptures For Today

Oil For Today – Day 127

[37] Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us.

Rom 8:37 (KJV)

Prayer Points For Today

  1. Begin to thank God for today.
  2. Begin to pray that you will know the magnitude of God’s love for you.
  3. Pray that the Spirit of God will grant you strength to keep standing.
  4. Begin to declare victory over the mountains currently standing against you.
  5. Pray for your local assembly; that the sound of victory will be heard in their midst.
  6. Begin to pray that by Christ you conquer all things.
  7. Begin to resist the devil in your life and family.
  8. Cast off every yoke that the devil has placed on you.
  9. Go ahead and make your personal requests for the day known to the Lord.
  10. Begin to thank the Lord for answered prayers.

Confession For Today

Oil For Today – Day 127

I am not a victim. I am a Victor. I have overcome. I live a victorious lifestyle. No more will I be held bound. Christ has won it all for me. I am more than a conqueror. The love of Christ envelopes me. I see His love in my relationship/marriage. I am surrounded by His love. Regardless of my past, I am not perturbed. Regardless of my mistakes, His love covers me still. I am a definition of God’s love.

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Oil For Today – Day 111

Oil For Today – Day 111

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Today is Oil For Today – Day 111. Let’s lift up our voice one more time as we pray to God! Watch Video on Youtube HERE. Check other days HERE.

Scriptures For Prayers Today

Oil For Today – Day 111

But upon mount Zion shall be deliverance, and there shall be holiness; and the house of Jacob shall possess their possessions.

Oba 1:17 (KJV)

Prayer Points For Today

Oil For Today – Day 111

  1. Begin to thank the LORD for all He has done for you.
  2. Pray that you will daily dwell on Mount Zion.
  3. Begin to pray for God’s deliverance from every mess you are currently in
  4. Begin to judge every contrary spirit working against the ordinances of God in your life.
  5. Pray for your local assembly; that the Spirit of holiness will dwell among her.
  6. Pray that your life yields the fruits of righteousness today.
  7. Begin to command everything that belongs to you to aggregate towards you today.
  8. Block every avenue that the devil is using to steal from you – sickness, accidents, etc.
  9. Go ahead and make your personal requests for the day known to the Lord.
  10. Begin to thank the Lord for answered prayers.

Confession For Today

Oil For Today – Day 111

Today I live in the consciousness of my place upon Mount Zion. I declare that I have come to Mount Zion, and therefore I am delivered from every affliction of the devil. I declare that whatsoever that is not of God is far from me and my family today. My life will yield the fruits of righteousness. In my thoughts, words, and actions I will display Christ to the world. I lay hold of everything that belongs to me today. I take my possessions today! I take my healing! I take my productivity! I take my wealth! I take my favour! I declare that I walk in victory today! Glory to God

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