Here Are Lovers Whose Love May Not Work

Here Are Lovers Whose Love May Not Work

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As singles and married couples, you are to deliberately work things out in your relationship or marriage and with the help of the Holy Spirit.

Here is what the scripture says:

…work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. (Philippians 2:12b KJV)

In courtship, you are to work things out. Courtship does not lead to marriage automatically, you are to work things out in your disposition, attitude, and reactions.

Now there are some couple combinations that are sure to crack along the way. When you find yourself in these spots, you need to seek help prayerfully and with a lot of wisdom to address the lurking issues. Here are those combinations:

1. Two people who are unbelievers

Two people who are unbelievers may love themselves, may be committed to each other, but when the storms of life come, they will fight their battles alone and you know, some of those battles can be very fierce.

They will not have God’s support since they don’t have a relationship with God. They will not have the benefit of sonship and it can be very intense! They need to connect with God!

2. Two people who are believers but refuse to grow

The second group of couples are those who may be believers but whose minds are not renewed. The only thing is that they already have a relationship with God, but apart from that, they are still carnal.

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They still do their stuff like unbelievers would do. They still want to have fun in forbidden areas and they still want to explore the perverse, which would often come with dire consequences.

My advice for couples in this group is that they seek help as soon as possible.

3. Two people where one is born again and the other is not

Here is another scenario that doesn’t always play out well, except with a lot of patience, prayers, and perseverance. I always advise singles, don’t think of getting married to someone who doesn’t have a relationship with God.

It would always be filled with challenges that you might have to fight alone because you are not agreed on your choice of weapons.

It can be frustrating while one is praying, the other is clubbing.

You want to pray, but he or she thinks you are just being fanatical. That can be very disconcerting, to say the least.

To be continued tomorrow…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am not greedy.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to love correctly.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Joh 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten son, that whosoever believes, should not perish, but have everlasting life.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Give genuinely

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
John 3

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These Types of Couples Need Urgent Help

These Types of Couples Need Urgent Help

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There are couples that are sitting on a keg of powder!
As married couples, you are to deliberately work things out in your marriage and with the help of the Holy Spirit.

Here is what the scripture says:

Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. (Philippians 2:12 KJV)

In marriage, you are to work things out. A relationship or courtship does not lead to marriage automatically, you are to work things out in your disposition, attitude and reactions. A marriage does not just succeed; you are to work things out between yourselves.

Now there are some couple combinations that are sure to crack along the way. When you find yourself in these spots, you need to seek help prayerfully and with a lot of wisdom to address the lurking issues. Here are those combinations:

1. Two people who are unbelievers
Two people who are unbelievers may love themselves, may be committed to each other, but when the storms of life come, they will fight their battles alone and you know, some of those battles can be very fierce.

They will not have God’s support since they don’t have a relationship with God. They will not have the benefit of son ship and it can be very intense! They need to connect with God!

2. Two people who are believers but refuse to grow
The second group of couples are those who may be believers but whose minds are not renewed. The only thing is that they already have a relationship with God, but apart from that, they are still carnal.

They still do their stuffs like unbelievers would do. They still want to have fun in forbidden areas and they still want to explore the perverse, which would often come with dire consequences.

My advice for couples in this group is that they seek help as soon as possible.

3. Two people where one is born again and the other is not
Here is another scenario that doesn’t always play out well, except with a lot of patience, prayers and perseverance.

I always advise singles, don’t think of getting married to someone who doesn’t have a relationship with God. It would always be filled with challenges that you might have to fight alone, because you are not agreed on your choice of weapons.

You want to pray, but he or she thinks you are just being fanatical. That can be very disconcerting, to say the least. It is always a good combo when both are agreed and are going in the same direction in terms of belief systems and practices.

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will grow in my relationship with my spouse.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, open the eyes of my understanding.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
2 Corinthians 6:14 (KJV) Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Decide to be faithful to your partner

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ps 147

Fasting and Prayer 2023 – Instructions

Fasting and Prayer 2023 – Declarations

Fasting and Prayer 2023 – Prayer Points

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