How  To Communicate With Your Spouse

How To Communicate With Your Spouse

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How we communicate is very vital. What is being said is important, but how it’s been said is equally important. A brother once had a dream, in the dream, he saw that each time we speak to our spouse harshly, it is like using a stick with many thorns to beat them.

How true this is. Harsh words will only breed hatred, bitterness, suspicion, rejection and more bitterness.

In the beginning, God gave man His presence, work, His Word, to cultivate (the woman), and to provide for her.

A man not in the presence of God, cannot have His word, and of course, cannot nurture his wife with the words God gave him.

You have to be able to pass across divine instructions in such a way that it is followed and obeyed by the wife. I think with each instruction, the man should also consciously ask for the wisdom and Holy Spirit’s help in passing it across and communicate it with his wife

There is always a way or method or wisdom given by the Holy spirit that will best suit your wife of husband as the case maybe.

In 1 Sam 16:1-3, we saw Samuel asked by God to go and anoint a king in the house of Jesse. He said, how can I go? If Saul hears it, he will kill me.
He didn’t jump off with the word of the Lord. He waited and asked God for a way to present it.

Husbands, wives, let us not always run off with the word of the Lord or a word from God. Ask how to communicate it to your wife or husband.

1Sam 16:2 KJV
And the Lord said, Take an heifer with thee, and say, I am come to sacrifice to the Lord.’

God taught him how to present the matter.

We will continue on this same topic tomorrow. We will look at saying it in love.

God bless your marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not be distracted in the race of life

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to stay focused and consistent

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
I’ll make sure you won’t be disappointed. “God’s Decree. “I’ll turn things around for you. I’ll bring you back from all the countries into which I drove you “–– God’ s Decree––” bring you home to the place from which I sent you off into exile. You can count on it.
(Jeremiah 29:14 Message)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Thank God for where you are now in the race of life

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
1 Samuel 28-31; Psalm 18


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Dreaming Big – Part 3 – It’s Time To Learn

Dreaming Big – Part 3 – It’s Time To Learn

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Okay, you know what you want to become. You have discovered your passion for taking care of animals or painting or something else. It’s time to move on. It’s time to learn.

Start taking the steps that will move you closer to achieving your dreams. This is about getting education. It could be formal or informal.

If your dream is to be a painter, you need to take classes in art. These classes will expose you to the world of art – artists, art principles, art styles, etc. Knowing these things will help you become a better artist. You need to learn. Applying all you have learnt coupled with your talent, will further make you create great artworks and your fame spread far and wide over the world.

Just like Samuel in the bible, he had to learn under the prophet Eli before he could become a prophet too. When Samuel first heard the voice of God, he thought it was Eli calling him. It was only after going to Eli that he was told what to do and who was calling Him

It’s going to take time for you to become excellent at what you want to become. Learning doesn’t take place in a day, but over a particular period of time.

Learning is important as you dream big. You must learn.

May the Lord expose you to the best learning experiences in your quest towards greatness, Amen.

Prayer:

Lord, help me as I learn to become what I desire to be. Give me the best teachers, schools, and experiences. In Jesus’ name, amen.

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What Do You Want To Become?

What Do You Want To Become?

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Have you ever thought about what you want to become in life? Have you ever wondered how adults become the professionals they are today? How did your mom and dad become what they are today?

Well, it’s all about deciding what they wanted to do at a very early age, much like you are right now. So you should start thinking in this direction, if you have not yet started.

What do you want to become? An astronaut, software designer, boat builder, race car driver or a writer? It is all about what you like to do. What do you like to do? Starting early to decide what you would like to become in future is important. This is because when you discover it, then you start to learn how to become it and then go through every process involved.

That’s how you can become what you want to become in life. The process will involve training, class lessons, exams and tests. You learn and then get tested before being certified as a professional.

Discover what you love to do and take all the necessary education you need about it. That’s how mommy and daddy did it.

Be like Samuel in the bible who learned under the prophet Eli. Under the prophet’s supervision, Samuel grew into a great prophet that God used to speak to kings in Israel.

May God show you what your passion is in Jesus name. May you come to know what you want to become in the name of Jesus. Amen.

Prayer:
Lord, help me to discover what I like to do and become in future in Jesus’ name. Amen

Action plan:
Start to note what you like doing. From there, you can discover your talents, then what you want to become in life.

Declaration:
I will help my parents and grandparents

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