Are You Lovey-Dovey?

Are You Lovey-Dovey?

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Are You Lovey-Dovey?

That word means “romantic.”

Spirituality should never in any way disturb being a romantic lover, single or married.

This has nothing to do with sexual intimacy.

The synonyms of “romantic” include loving, amorous, passionate, tender, affectionate, lovey-dovey.

Speaking in tongues should not disturb speaking sweet things to your lover.

One is to God, the other is to your lover. After you have done the one for God, do the one for your lover as well.

Let your relationship or marriage be characterized by the expression of love.

Be passionate towards him or her.

Before the wedding, “passionate’ does not include kissing, smooching, and intimacy. 

It includes calling regularly, doting on each other, praying for one another, sending loving (not vulgar or perverse) texts to each other (not sexting), buying each other flowers, chocolates, and special gifts, and doing memorable things together.

After the wedding, it includes all of the above and regular, consistent, times of intimacy, as much as you want.

Are You Lovey-Dovey?

Being romantic is not being full of lust.

In the Old Testament, honeymoons last as long as one year!

Deu 24:5 (KJV)
When a man hath taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business: but he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer up his wife which he hath taken.

God wants you to enjoy each other! Obviously, this doesn’t mean to go and stay somewhere without work in today’s world, It simply means to continue in that atmosphere of honeymoon. By the time you do one year, it becomes a lifetime practice.

In the New Testament, God wants you to have a honeymoon for life! Enjoy every day of your married life!

Sadly enough, by the first week of most marriages, it is only the moon they can find, no honey! 

That will not be your portion in Jesus’ name!

The Bible clearly advocates that married couples enjoy themselves sexually and otherwise.

Pro 5:18-19 (KJV)  
Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.  [19]   Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.

Are You Lovey-Dovey?

There is nothing wrong with fantasizing about your spouse! It is godly. Take a look at the Message Translation:

Pro 5:18-19 (MSG)  
Bless your fresh-flowing fountain! Enjoy the wife you married as a young man!  [19]  Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose— don’t ever quit taking delight in her body. Never take her love for granted!

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Don’t Be Tired of Improving Your Marriage

Don’t Be Tired of Improving Your Marriage

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Marriage is one institution you will never stop improving. No matter how old you are, you never grow too old of getting better at your marriage.

In fact, it is said that like wine, it gets better and sweeter the older it gets. I think it is true. The marriage goes through different stages and like a child you have to be patient with your marriage.

It requires a lot of work, a lot of sowing into the marriage. The formative years of the marriage are the most critical of all. Those years in a marriage which comes with so much labor and hard work.

Those years, you are still trying to understand yourselves; where the differences in temperaments and the male/female differences had to be mastered, where your spouse’s weaknesses really show, where you get pissed up by your spouse’s weaknesses, and where his strength can put you off, rather than celebrate his strength.

You may be at this critical stage in your marriage. I want to encourage you to hold on and be patient.

What God has joined together, let no man put asunder, is what the bible says. Make sure no matter what, you keep on improving on your marriage.

Never grow weary of improving on your marriage. Never grow weary of doing those things you know will improve your marriage. Don’t stop talking. Don’t stop being loving. Don’t stop being tender and kind.

Don’t stop helping your wife achieve her dreams. Don’t stop meeting her needs. Never stop treating her in a special way.

Never stop being a helper. Help him fulfill his dreams. Be romantic. Make him feel like a king. Don’t stop praying. Never stop talking to God about your marriage.

Your marriage is yours to bring the best out of it. It is yours to work out until the beauty therein appears.

God is waiting on you. Heaven believes in you to make it work. So make it work.

God bless your marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I love my spouse

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to improve on my marriage

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 

Php 2:13 (KJV)  For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Improve on your marriage

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Psalms 95, 97-99


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The Kind of Husband Single Ladies Want To Marry – Part 2

The Kind of Husband Single Ladies Want To Marry – Part 2

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3. The Spiritual Husband

The spiritual husband will put the things of God first place. He takes charge of the family in the place of spiritual oversight and knows how to hear from God.

A man that doesn’t know how to hear God can make the whole family suffer because of wrong decisions. 

Every day, a man is making decisions, but the consequences of his decisions go beyond him, they affect the whole family.

However, ladies don’t just want a spiritual husband. They also want a romantic husband.

4. The Romantic Husband

If he is spiritual but unromantic, he will be a bore! 

Ladies would be like “Is it only Bible reading and speaking in tongues all the time? Going to the movies once in a while nko?

Ladies want a man that knows his onions when it comes to being romantic.

Every wife wants a man that can read the Bible but can also read their moods. They want a man who can interpret tongues and can also interpret non-verbal cues. They want a man who is sensitive to the Holy Spirit and is also sensitive to their needs!

Abi ladies, is that not what you want?

5. The Humorous Husband

Every lady loves her husband who can make her laugh! What is the point of frowning all over the house throughout the day?

Pastor, is it when there is no money that we would be laughing? Well, read your Bible very well.

At destruction and famine thou shalt laugh… – Job 5:22 (KJV) 

Laugh about it and stop looking like Lucozade!

Make your wife laugh!

Those times when your wife is not really happy for whatever reasons, sometimes they themselves don’t even know why you should know what chords to strike that will tickle her.

If all you do is make that lady frown and sad, your relationship or marriage is at risk the day one colleague starts making your wife laugh!

You must know her password. You must learn her love language and learn how to deploy the words strategically to get her out of any pit of depression!

Laughter is like medicine! So, husbands, loosen up.

Guys in courtship, all this frowning all over the place because you are trusting God for money to get a house and settle down is not the way out. Get into God’s word, eat them and let it become a joy and rejoicing of your heart!

As you stay joyful, God will give you ideas that will bring more income, will favour you, and cause an in-flow of funds that will position you to experience God’s supernatural supply system!

I pray that God will give you more understanding!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will go after wisdom. Knowledge is pleasant to my soul. I enjoy reading God’s word. Discretion will preserve me. Understanding will keep me.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
O Lord, flood my heart with the light of your word.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
And here’s why: GOD gives out Wisdom free, is plainspoken in Knowledge and Understanding. (Pro 2:6 MSG)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Start searching for knowledge of God’s word now.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Prov 2-4


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The Romantic Voice of Your Lover – Part 2

The Romantic Voice of Your Lover – Part 2

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Happy New Month to all partners and members of KHC. This month, your dreams shall become a reality.

From the first to the third of March, we will be waiting on God in fasting and prayers. If you are in Ibadan, Nigeria, join us by 6 pm at Shouts of Grace Center, Joke Plaza, beside Trans Amusement park, Bodija-Ui road, Ibadan.

Continued from yesterday…

My beloved spake, and said unto me, Rise up, my love, my fair one, and come away. – Song of Solomon 2:10 (KJV) 

Or maybe you are in love with the one who is not in love with you… and that can be an affliction of the soul and the body. But much more than this, there is a voice that gives power to your lover’s voice.

There is the romantic voice and there is the spiritual voice. The romantic will always be dependent on the spiritual. Both of them are good, but one is terrestrial and the other is celestial. And the glory of the celestial will always surpass that of the terrestrial.

This is the voice of Yahweh. If your lover has heard Him in the morning, then his or her voice will not be muted towards you that day.

The voice of God is powerful, breaking cedars and shaking the wilderness of Kadesh. God’s voice will shatter the eerie silence that wants to dominate your relationship and marriage.

Have you heard Him this morning? That is only when you can speak like a true lover to your loved ones with your speech bringing grace!

No wonder we have it here:

Let your speech be alway with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man. – Colossians 4:6 (KJV) 

This only becomes a reality when humanity has a synergy with divinity, when you have been with the Lord, your mouth will not lack adequate words to everybody around you and particularly to your loved one!

What has your communication been like? Does His voice or her voice still tickle you? Do you listen to the voice of your maker at the dawn of the day?

This is what keeps your love life going, not just in the right direction, but with the right person. This is what keeps marriages and homes together. Without that voice, it will be a wasted effort.

I rest my case this morning as I conclude with this scripture:

Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the LORD keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain. – Psalms 127:1 (KJV)

You will not waste your years.

You will not labour in vain.

You will not fall in love hopelessly.

You will not waste your years in loving the one that will never love you. 

You will not build shacks!

If GOD doesn’t build the house, the builders only build shacks… – Psalms 127:1 (MSG) 

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not fall in love helplessly.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Ask for the Grace to recognize the voice of your lover

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
My lover has arrived and he’s speaking to me! Get up, my dear friend, fair and beautiful lover—come to me! – Song of Solomon 2:10 (MSG) 

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Are you truly in love? Think about it.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Song of Solomon 3


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How Being Truthful Can Be Romantic – Part 2

How Being Truthful Can Be Romantic – Part 2

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3. Life is all about seed, time, and harvest

If life is all about seed, time, and harvest, then it means every time I tell a lie, get into falsehood, or I am insincere, I am sowing a seed. If the harvest will eventually come, the question is ‘what kind of harvest will come with those kinds of seed?

If I keep deceiving her while I have somebody else I really want to get married to, that would be a wrong seed to sow into my life.

If I start a secret relationship and try to hide from my spouse, and willfully continue in it, that would surely be a wrong seed!

The deal is very simple; if you don’t want the whirlwind, then don’t sow the wind!    

For they have sown the wind, and they shall reap the whirlwind…(Hosea 8:7a KJV)

4. You will be able to deal with sins that thrive on secrecy

Do you know it takes secrecy to cheat on your spouse? Do you know it takes secrecy to double date? It goes without saying then, that if you can be sincere with your spouse to the last details, you will not be trapped!

If you know you cannot but tell your spouse everything that happened, then you are cautious about what you do because you still have to say everything.

The moment you can internalize it and hide it in marriage, you have just given the devil a foothold to operate!

Be sincere! When you are sincere, the power of iniquity will be broken!

Don’t give the Devil that kind of foothold in your life.

Iniquity is perpetuated in the atmosphere of secrecy. Make up your mind to hide nothing from your spouse, and you would have freed yourself from a lot of demonic strongholds without any deliverance sessions!

This does not necessarily mean having to dig into the past to bring out unnecessary issues that have been long forgotten and forgiven by God.

I am talking about present issues, daily happenstances, make up your mind to hide nothing, you will be amazed at how you have liberated yourself.

Your life of truthfulness or deception goes beyond you, it will be consequential upon your destiny, your lover, spouse, your children, and generation unborn.

This is because truthfulness or deception will inform your decisions and your decisions will inform how your life, that of your spouse, and your children turn out.

Decide today to be fruitful. It pays.

Amplified Bible sums it all.

The heart of her husband trusts in her confidently and relies on and believes in her securely, so that he has no lack of [ honest ] gain or need of [ dishonest ] spoil. – Proverbs 31:11 (AMP)

May God grant you more understanding!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will be a person of integrity.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Ask for the grace to be a person of integrity

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Let integrity and uprightness protect me, for I wait [expectantly] for You. Psalms 25:21 KJV

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Be a person of integrity

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ps 25


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