How To End Quarrels And Bitterness

How To End Quarrels And Bitterness

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How To End Quarrels And Bitterness. Ade and sally’s relationship was riddled with unending quarrels. They practically fought all through their courtship days. They hoped it would stop after the wedding, but alas, it intensified. They were both churchgoers, perceived as children of God, but filled with bitterness.

Somehow, they hoped things would change as each of them maintained their stances. They both had points to prove but nothing changed.

The reality is that wedding changes nobody. If you fight frequently during your courtship, you would most likely continue the quarrel party after the wedding.

Frequent quarrels should not be ignored or seen as normal as singles. Pay attention to it and seek help.

Yes, there will be friction that comes from male-female differences and temperamental differences, but there has to be a way of resolving those differences and forgiving each other as quickly as you can.

Bitterness in your relationship and marriage will slow you down, It will defile you and defile everybody around you.

It will create loopholes for the devil to exploit and create cracks that will be expanded.

How To End Quarrels And Bitterness

Heb 12:15 (KJV) Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled;

Can you see that? It will cause grace to fail, it will trouble you and defile many others!

Bitterness is a no no!

Bitterness is defined as “anger and disappointment at being treated unfairly; resentment”

It includes extreme hatred and wickedness.

Now you don’t need this in your marriage! You can see that it is a tool in the hands of devil.

You are in courtship, you have not been calling each other and yet you want to get married? What’s that?

You are married and you sustain animosity for months at a time! Eh! You are not only going to ground your prayers, but you are also going to stop financial flow!

What has your spouse done! You must forgive, or a lot of things will simply be slowed down!

In your marriage, you should work at it! Both of you. Don’t just look on till it degenerates to a point you won’t like and thing get stagnant and messy! This is How To End Quarrels And Bitterness

Seek help. Seek counsel!

I pray God will grant you more understanding! 

I will not be bitter. I forgive easily


I destroy the spirit behind incessant quarrels in Jesus’ name  

Heb 12:15 (AMPC) Exercise foresight and be on the watch to look [after one another], to see that no one falls back from and fails to secure God’s grace (His unmerited favor and spiritual blessing), in order that no root of resentment (rancor, bitterness, or hatred) shoots forth and causes trouble and bitter torment, and the many become contaminated and defiled by it-

End all bitterness and forgive 

Heb 12


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