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Men Need Acceptance While Women Need Attention

by Rev. Sophia Okunowo | Aug 5, 2022 | Couples

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Men Need Acceptance While Women Need Attention. Nobody enters marriage with the intention of divorcing, but along the line, there is a disconnection and couples have crises.

Men and women are different species if I can use that term. That’s why it becomes absolutely necessary for them to study and learn about each other’s world.

God has put so much investment into marriage. The first institution that God created was marriage. He made Adam a husband and a father. Marriage was the first institution before any other institution

We have successful lawyers, businessmen, and doctors, who have spent years before becoming what they are while not succeeding in their marriage because they failed to learn about marriage.

Men’s number one need is Acceptance. Women, never confront your husband. Men are warriors and fighters by nature. If you confront him, he will resist you, instinctively because the warrior in him will rise up.

When you accept him, he knows you are for him. You are an ally, not an enemy.

Women, when you want to get your husband to change don’t confront him. The direct correction will not work. He is not your child which you correct. You are to love your husband and you are to correct your children.

The rule is to accept your man, don’t confront him.

For example, if your husband dresses roughly, don’t tell him he dresses roughly and he needs to change. Tell him he is a very handsome guy and that he will even look better when he wears complimentary colours and dress sharp. He gets the message or better still, find a time he is more relaxed and tell him he looks finer with colours that match.

Women like to fix things, please don’t try to fix your man. Accept and celebrate him. Men Need Acceptance While Women Need Attention

On the other hand, women need attention. Your wife needs attention. Everything she does, the hair she makes, the cloth she wears, everything is to get your attention. Notice her, verbalize the fact that you notice her. Don’t ignore your wife. Be the first to notice what she’s wearing and comment. Notice when she makes a new hairstyle and make comments.

Tell her she is beautiful and gorgeous. Be tender towards her like you will do to a baby. Shower her with attention, don’t neglect her for another lady. It’s a No, No. Don’t show another female more attention than you show your wife, under any circumstances.

Couples, learn this about each other and make necessary adjustments.

Your marriage will thrive. Men Need Acceptance While Women Need Attention

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I accept my husband. I give my undivided attention to my wife

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Father help me to realize that men and women are different. Grant me wisdom in Jesus name

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Eph 5: 33.….husbands love your wives, wives respect your husbands

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Be mindful of accepting your husband and giving attention to your wife

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Eph 5