How To Stop Negative Thoughts

How To Stop Negative Thoughts

How To Stop Negative Thoughts. How do you stop negative thoughts from ruining your relationship or marriage as single or married? Too many a relationship and marriages have been ruined by the kinds of thoughts that were entertained. Thoughts are so powerful that they...

All Things Will Be Well

All Things Will Be Well

All Things Will Be Well. A lady sat before me some three years ago. She told me how nobody ever asks her out. She is worried and thinks there is a curse somewhere. She felt it is abnormal that nobody ever asks her out. I looked at her and told her there was no curse...

Who’s The Lover God Wants For Me?

Who’s The Lover God Wants For Me?

Who's The Lover God Wants For Me? The referee wields a lot of power in the football game. He is the arbitrator and he decides what is clearly a goal or what is a foul. In life and marriage, there are goals and there are fouls. When you play to the rule of the game,...

God’s Leading And Who To Marry

God’s Leading And Who To Marry

God’s Leading And Who To Marry. Sally wanted what would prevent her from falling in love with the wrong person and wasting her time on what is not going to work. She wanted to save her emotions from roller-coaster rides that lead nowhere. She doesn’t want to spend so...

Should I Trust My Dreams?

Should I Trust My Dreams?

Should I Trust my Dreams? What do you do when you have dreams? Are dreams authentic enough to be acted upon? I remember as a young man in my teen years, I was harassed with so many dreams. I was born again, but I didn't know my rights. I would dream and find myself...

How To Overcome Fear

How To Overcome Fear

How To Overcome Fear. Sally and George are in courtship and looking forward to marriage. But Sade is full of fears and questions. Will I be able to give birth? Is marriage meant for me? Will I be rich or wallow in abject poverty? What will the future look like? Will I...

Knowing The Lover Who Is Spiritual

Knowing The Lover Who Is Spiritual

Knowing The Lover Who Is Spiritual. This morning, we continue from where we left off yesterday. How do you know the lover who is spiritual and the one who is not? 3. Availability and willingness to serve What about the brother or sister that is always there to serve?...

How To Know The Spiritual Lover

How To Know The Spiritual Lover

How To Know The Spiritual Lover. This has been a pertinent and persistent question in the heart of many singles. How do you know a spiritual brother or sister? In the multitudes of the people that attend a church, in their thousands, how do you know who is spiritual...

When You Hate The One You Love

When You Hate The One You Love

When You Hate The One You Love. It sounds like a contradiction, but in no way establishes its dubiety.  It is not healthy, but it happens. Nobody wants it, but you sometimes find yourself at loggerheads and you yield to your flesh and just want to stay angry,...

Finish The Doubts!

Finish The Doubts!

Finish The Doubts! So how will Sally avoid doubts? How will she minimize doubts? This is our subject for discourse today as we continue from where we stopped yesterday. Finish The Doubts! 1. The first thing to note is that you should never take a step until you are...

In Love, But In Doubt!

In Love, But In Doubt!

In Love, But In Doubt! Sally is so much in love and yet her soul is engulfed in an Island of doubt. The contradiction is a source of confusion for her. How can I be in love and yet doubt holds me in the jugular, suffocating the life out of me with unending questions...

Single Or Married, Avoid These!

Single Or Married, Avoid These!

Single Or Married, Avoid These! One man was looking intently at his wedding certificate for hours. After he was asked why did that, he said he was searching for the expiry date! Well, marriage will not expire, there is no reverse gear. Another man was watching his...

How To Recognize Emotional Affairs

How To Recognize Emotional Affairs

How To Recognize Emotional Affairs. Sally was long gone in falling in love and emotionally entangled with George, and yet George kept claiming they are just friends. Sally was like ice cubes exposed to the sun each time she is around George. She would simply melt and...

Is It Just A Feeling or Love?

Is It Just A Feeling or Love?

Is It Just A Feeling or Love? One of the most abused statements in this generation is “I am in love.” Two people met themselves, there was strong body chemistry, and they hit on the very moment they set eyes on each other, it was as if they have known each for a long...

Dealing With Devices in Marriage

Dealing With Devices in Marriage

Dealing With Devices in Marriage. George, a married man, traveled from work and lodged in a hotel, and then a beautiful lady, Sally lodged beside his room. In no time, they became friends and in a matter of minutes, she is already in his room chatting away. It looked...

Those Who Do You Wrong

Those Who Do You Wrong

Those Who Do You Wrong. Sally has been deeply hurt! Thinking she would soon be the enviable bride, she was dropped like hot potatoes! She landed badly and bitter! Her expectations were crushed, and she felt like life should just end. Life became boring, she became...

These Three Are Needed!

These Three Are Needed!

These Three Are Needed! Hear this, the people you admire and you often envy are not really favoured more than you, they simply know what you don’t know.As a single or married couple, there are three things you should pray into your life daily. They are not exhaustive,...