How To Honor Each Other In Marriage

How To Honor Each Other In Marriage

The issue of honor in marriage is critical. A marriage where there is no honor is no order. The wife does what she likes and the husband does what he likes. The marriage is not governed by any rules. Christ is not at the center of the home. We must understand that God instituted marriage. He is the one who said it is not good that man be alone. He has an original plan and purpose for all marriages. Each marriage is unique. Each home has its own unique pattern. Each marriage has its own unique place in the heart of the…
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Pleasing Your Spouse Without Dishonouring God

Pleasing Your Spouse Without Dishonouring God

In today's devotional we'll be looking at pleasing your spouse without dishonoring God, let's take note of the following, they are not exhaustive. Do whatever your spouse loves Learning about love languages is not just for learning sake. It is so that you begin to do those things you discovered they love and enjoy. You must seek to become an intentional spouse and lover. Loving your spouse by speaking their love language may not come naturally to you. You have to make efforts in pleasing your spouse. That’s when love comes with it being a choice, a decision, and a…
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The Ten Commandments for All Wives on KHC

The Ten Commandments for All Wives on KHC

In today's couples' devotionals, we will be looking at commandments for all wives on KHC. These "commandments" and principles will be the game changer in your marriage. 1. Thou shalt love the Lord thy God, thou shalt love Him and thou shall ensure your relationship with God is intact.Thou shall know that is it is not by power, nor by might but by His Spirit. Thou shall know that it is not about thy beauty, thy carriage, thy acumen, thy intelligence or connections, but by the Lord thy God which helpeth thee. 2. Thou shall not double date.If thou double…
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It’s Your Marriage, Focus On It And Make It Work

It’s Your Marriage, Focus On It And Make It Work

Good morning, married folk out there. God bless your marriage. God is committed until your marriage becomes all it has the potential to become. Your marriage can work out beautifully well. You can enjoy and have that dream marriage you always desire. Don't for once ever feel it can never happen. If you believe it can never happen, gosh, you just announced it won't happen. Don't give up, but be willing and obedient to do and give your marriage all it takes to make it work. You know married couples should begin to have this attitude of 'my marriage is…
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How To Go About Communication During Love Making?

How To Go About Communication During Love Making?

We will be looking at communication during love making. By communication, I mean both verbal and non-verbal communication. During love making, should there be talking? Or it should be as silent as a graveyard? Another question is, should the room or any where you choose be dark, poorly lighted or fully lighted? That another question we will be looking at today. All these questions are what you may be asking or is on your mind and we will together throw more light on them. Well, your comments will be highly appreciated and welcome. Let's know what happens in the 'other…
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How Wives Can Use Gratitude As A Weapon

How Wives Can Use Gratitude As A Weapon

Talking about gratitude or being grateful, I think every couple should be overly grateful to their spouse. Not only is it for the woman to be grateful but also for the man. We all owe ourselves a lifetime of gratitude. If not for anything, that he/she married you. You know how difficult it could be, being married to you. The times you threw tantrums, the times you were 'mad' (literally), the time you did not understand yourself, the time you were under pressure, the time you were in debt, the time when you were sick and all these times your…
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One Major Thing Every Husband Needs

One Major Thing Every Husband Needs

Men's need for respect is almost top of the list. Every man, your husband inclusive need a high dose of it. Women who know their onions and wish to make a success of this journey called marriage, must learn how to give it. Respect must be given on the husband terms, not on your own terms. Some wives even try to resist offering respect to their husbands or only give it when he is well behaved on their terms. Every wife should know that the man is naturally a fighter. You put up a fight, he gives you in doses…
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In-Laws: How To Handle Troublesome Ones

In-Laws: How To Handle Troublesome Ones

The issue of in-laws is a very important one. If you have in-laws and they live in the town where you live, proximity should be handled with care. In laws ought to wish their children the best at least to the best of their knowledge. I believe it is best before marriage to prepare your heart to accommodate your in-laws in a cordial relationship. It is also good to accept them for who they are. I am so blessed, when it comes to my in laws. My father, brother and sisters in law are so warm, I couldn't have asked…
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Extramarital Affairs: How To Avoid Them In Marriage

Extramarital Affairs: How To Avoid Them In Marriage

Married couples, your marriage vows are very sacred and needs to be kept as such. Extramarital affairs should be avoided at all costs. Marriage should be held in high esteem and the bed must remain undefiled. We should always make sure we fulfill our roles as married couples. Marriage is for companionship, where both parties stay and stick with each other no matter what. The chief culprit in developing extra-marital affairs is when either of the party is not a real companion. Real companionship is not just about pictures all over social media. Issues in marriage don’t have to be…
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Don’t Hide Things From Each Other In Marriage

Don’t Hide Things From Each Other In Marriage

Gen 2:25 (AMP) And the man and his wife were both naked and were not embarrassed or ashamed in each other's presence. Mr. and Mrs. Johnson have been married for three years. Blessed with two vibrant princes, their family seems ideal, observing it from the external. They seem to have everything going for them, good jobs, good pay, nice car, wonderful apartment, yearly vacation, and more goodies anybody would pray for...except for one thing...Mrs. Johnson is unhappy and her energy for "family" is fast ebbing out. The only reason she is unhappy is because of her handsome husband, the man…
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How To Enjoy The Other Room In Marriage

How To Enjoy The Other Room In Marriage

Yes, we need to take foreplay to another level. It is very possible to enjoy the other room in marriage Foreplay is so relaxing, soothing, and rejuvenating. After such a tiring day, there is nothing as good as good love-making preceded by good foreplay. I like the fact that it is therapeutic in nature. The release of hormones makes it a good medicine and it is also a good exercise. I know some married couples don't have it as good. So I would like to address both husband and wife. First, to those who are not really enjoying or having…
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Be Your Husband’s Playmate

Be Your Husband’s Playmate

Have you ever been unresponsive to your husband's playful advances? I have been several times. That was before I learned that part of my role as a wife is to be responsive to him and to be his playmate every time and any time. Do I respond every time? No. I still consider my husband playful and don't join, thankfully we have three boys who can play with him. My husband sometimes considers me as being too serious. I never grew up with a sanguine in the house so having fun was not a regular thing. We were quiet in…
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Stressors: How Couples Can Handle Them – Part 5

Stressors: How Couples Can Handle Them – Part 5

I will continue from where I stopped yesterday. We have been looking at different types of stressors and how we can avoid them. How these stressors cause stress and strain in our relationship with our spouse. We looked yesterday at how unforgiveness can be a sources of unhappiness in marriage. It can cause a lot of tension between couples. Today, we are moving on to 8.  Not being open and transparent. Marriage is translated H.O.T, honest, open and transparent. Husband and wife should be naked and not ashamed. And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were…
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Stress in Marriage: How Couples Can Handle It – Part 4

Stress in Marriage: How Couples Can Handle It – Part 4

We are continuing on our series, how married couples should handle stress in their marriage. We are looking at different stressors, especially those that are self-induced, and how to handle them. We have looked at the following: 1. Financial pressure 2. Dealing with in-laws 3. Comparison traps 4. Doing beyond ourselves 5. Not minding our own business 6. Not being able to say No. And today, 7. Being unforgiving to our spouse. One of the most important ingredients in having a happy marriage is when couples forgive each other quickly. The bible is so clear on the issue of forgiveness…
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Stress in Marriage: How Couples Can Handle It – Part 3

Stress in Marriage: How Couples Can Handle It – Part 3

We are still continuing our series, how couples can handle stress in marriage. We have looked at different stressors and if handled well will never be a source of strain on our marital union. Today, I will be addressing the issue of: 5. Not minding our business. As easy as this may be for some of us by virtue of our background. It's so difficult for some of us to simply mind our business. It is interesting to know that every way we should live our lives as Christian couples is already addressed on the bible, either directly or indirectly.…
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Stress in Marriage: How Couples Can Handle It – Part 2

Stress in Marriage: How Couples Can Handle It – Part 2

I will be addressing the issue of how husbands and wives can handle stress in marriage thereby creating a more cordial and intimate atmosphere together. I will be writing about this topic "Stress in marriage" for some days so let enjoy the ride together. Yesterday I wrote on 1. Financial pressure 2. Handling in-laws And today 3. Comparison trap Bible tells us they that compare themselves with themselves are not wise. In the NLT we have another translation: Oh, don’t worry; we wouldn’t dare say that we are as wonderful as these other men who tell you how important they…
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