Strengthen Rather Than Weary Yourselves

Strengthen Rather Than Weary Yourselves

Strengthen Rather Than Weary Yourselves Mrs Adet is almost always sad. She is not a happy wife neither is she a happy woman. This is because she feels battered most of the time. Not physically, as a matter of fact, her husband has never lifted up his hands against her. But there is a much worse thing being lifted against her, it’s his tongue! The scripture says There is that speaketh like the piercings of a sword: but the tongue of the wise is health.Pro 12:18 (KJV) Her husband is the sharp-mouthed man who speaks so bluntly without emotions or…
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Here Are Six Things Every Husband Wants

Here Are Six Things Every Husband Wants

Ever wondered what your husband really wants from you as a wife? Sometimes, most wives are just oblivious of how to please their husbands. This feeling of being at a loss in your matrimonial home is not a pleasant one at all. Every man expects his wife to respect him As you might have discovered, respect is a very big issue for men. Every wife should show respect to her husband.The principle of sowing and reaping also comes into place here. As you honour your husband, he will honour you as well. Every man expects his wife to be homelyCaring…
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This Kind Of Intoxication is Good

This Kind Of Intoxication is Good

This Kind Of Intoxication is Good How much should husbands and wives love themselves? They should be intoxicated with one another! That is how much! We see this right in the scripture. Son 1:2 (KJV)Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine. Take a look at the Message Translation: Son 1:2 (GW)[Bride] Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth. Your expressions of love are better than wine, Love is to be expressed. And these expressions or actions are compared with wine and even much better. What does wine…
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Why She Is Vital In Your Life

Why She Is Vital In Your Life

Women occupy a major part in the plan of God, in the life of a man and in the society in general. Her role and importance cannot be over-emphasized as this is exemplified in her capacity to cause procreation to become a reality. She is the woman, the man with a womb, The womb-man! She is the help-meet! The helper for the man. Isn’t it interesting that she and the Holy Spirit are the ones referred to as helpers throughout the scripture? You grieve the Holy Spirit, your prayers can be hindered. You grieve your wife, your prayers can be…
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My Wife No Longer Smiles At Home

My Wife No Longer Smiles At Home

She is simply vivacious! Her smile makes my blood run! Mr. Bode thought as he reminiscence on the joy that his wife has been in his life. Her electric smile, accentuated by well-placed dimples, could melt any heart as she reveals a beautiful gap in between a well-set of teeth. She is simply a beauty to behold and she brings beauty into anybody she comes in contact with as well. Getting married to such beauty was a dream come true for Mr. Bode! He reciprocated this affection and love through a lot of things, including writing her poems regularly, buying…
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Abandoning Your Spouse In Bed Is A No No!

Abandoning Your Spouse In Bed Is A No No!

Son 2:15Take us the foxes, the little foxes, that spoil the vines: for our vines have tender grapes. I want us to notice three things from the above scripture. Take these little foxes.The foxes are little, insignificant issues.Our vines, (marriage) have tender grapes. When we run marriage with godly principles, it has the potential to yield great results. I want us to note here that godly principles are not necessarily logical. Below are some logical reasons why either the wife or husband leave their matrimonial bed My husband or wife snores and sleeps roughly. I can’t cope with not having…
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Husbands, Take Note of These Three Things

Husbands, Take Note of These Three Things

Husbands, Take Note of These Three Things 1. The Conscious Expression of LoveThis is a big issue for women.Saying the words "I love you" genuinely could be the solution to the crisis rocking your home. She wants to hear it from you as often as possible. As a lady, she will definitely get compliments from outside. The problem begins when the compliments she is getting from outside outweigh the ones her husband is giving her at home. Women go through a lot and struggle so much with their emotions, that is why they always carry a mirror everywhere they go.…
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Avoid These Costly Mistakes As Married Couples

Avoid These Costly Mistakes As Married Couples

I want to share with you this morning a few things I have learnt over time. I want to identify three out of many practices that you should avoid in your marriage. Avoiding them is tactically avoiding unnecessary headaches. May God continue to give is His wisdom. 1. Avoid reporting your spouse to your in-laws or parents or any other third party aside from your mentors/pastors.From counseling experiences, it usually backfires and sets the family more into crisis than bring them out of it. Once the husband realizes he is no longer in charge of his family, he is going…
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Which Couple Wants To Be A Millionaire?

Which Couple Wants To Be A Millionaire?

Wow, it’s twenty-five million Naira to be won. Which Couple Wants To Be A Millionaire? The couples’ meeting got to an interesting part all have been waiting for! 25 Million grand! It can buy a few cars or build a bungalow! Every couple present looked out to winning the star prize that night. The moderator’s voice boomed out of the sound system as he announced what it takes to win the money! Couples could be seen whispering to each other, full of excitement and joy that is welling up from within. Who doesn’t want that kind of money! Some even…
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The Four “F”s of A Great Marriage

The Four “F”s of A Great Marriage

1. FocusA great marriage is made of a couple who are so into themselves. They focus on each other’s needs. They love each other tirelessly. They are best friends of themselves. For the Lord God will help me; therefore shall I not be confounded: therefore have I set my face like a flint, and I know that I shall not be ashamed. Isa 50:7 (KJV) God will help, but you must set your face like a flint, which means to focus. Focusing on each other will help you to be faithful to each other in your marriage. 2. ForgiveA fantastic…
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How To Exit And End An Affair Properly

How To Exit And End An Affair Properly

It’s a generation where husbands and wives are cheating on each other, even within the church. People have a lot of excuses why it had to happen. It’s all sounding as if God has revised the scriptures and is now accommodating such lifestyles, but truthfully, the scripture remains the same. God still frowns at it! The devil is a master strategist. From the very day you are married, he begins to plot and twist, all in a bid to bring you against your maker. You must do well not to slide into his slimy descent of deception. As couples, you…
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She Wants A Longer Time In The Chamber

She Wants A Longer Time In The Chamber

I suppose you already understand what I mean by the word “chamber.”I am not talking about lawyers! Smile…and this is for married couples. This is married couples’ devotionals. If you are single before I count three; Oya! 1…2…Pim! There are some times that love is made in what we often refer to as a quickie. That is understandable. And it’s one type of doing it. And it’s cool. However, if you want to make your wife happy and give her an earth-shaking big “O,” then you are going to spend some more time or longer time before the actual thing.…
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How Friendly Is Too Friendly In Marriage?

How Friendly Is Too Friendly In Marriage?

How Friendly Is Too Friendly In Marriage? Mr and Mrs Ade have been married for some years. They had a close family friend, the Andys. They were so close that they built their houses beside one another. They were each other’s best man. Down the line, Mr. Ade developed some erectile dysfunction which he refused to disclose to his wife. That was the first mistake. He dealt with the embarrassment by coming home late to avoid, love making with his wife. Mrs Ade had a shop in front of the house with those long recoiling metallic doors that had to…
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Take Care Of Your Woman

Take Care Of Your Woman

I love the way our Eastern brothers usually refer to their wives. They will say "My Woman!" Well, your wife is your woman. She is yours and no other. So you simply take care of her. "Oh yeah, Pastor, I am taking care of her.' "Have you really asked her and engaged her to know her definition of being cared for? It may be way different from what you think. What a woman interprets as care is often influenced by a lot of factors which may include background, parental upbringing, schools attended, church attended, personality type, temperament, past experiences, and…
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How To Defuse Anger In Your Marriage

How To Defuse Anger In Your Marriage

How To Defuse Anger In Your Marriage Words flew in the air like missiles, accompanied with fire in their tails, landing like piercing swords in their souls, tearing apart and causing untold agony in the inner crevices of their souls. Like angry puppies, they bellowed at each other while their little daughter cried because she could not understand why “strong” daddy and “cute” mummy were screaming at each other vociferously! The veins stood up on his temple and her veins breathed hard from her neck. Then there was a knock on the door, and only then did they come back…
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How To Deal With A Frequently Angry Spouse

How To Deal With A Frequently Angry Spouse

Mr. and Mrs. George are two of a kind. They both have short fuses. They get angry so easily and frequently. As a result, they live in cycles of quarrels and strife. Before the last quarrel was settled, two fresh ones have started. As a result, they never really get to enjoy their married life. They were both swimming in the slimy waters of strife and perpetual bitterness and their arrogance blinded them to what they were missing with that posture. Their prayers remained largely unanswered. Their peculiarity was that both of them were getting angry at the same time.…
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